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Ada satu destinasi yang sebenernya gak seriusan gw rencanakan tapi berakhir sangat berkesan dan exceptional, yaitu pas ke Genoa, kota pelabuhan di Italian Riviera (daerah selatan sebelah barat, berbatasan dengan Prancis) 

Dari sini juga asal pelaut Christoforus Colombus (nama aslinya dalam bahasa italia= Christoforo Colombo) yang pernah menjelajah berbagai benua termasuk Amerika.

Host gw yang di Firenze bilang sebenernya gak ada apa-apa di Genoa kecuali kapal-kapal punya orang kaya di pelabuhan (dan dia bilang mending dilewat aja).

Owya, sebenernya waktu di Firenze sebenernya gw pengen stay lebih lama tapi ternyata pas mau booking hostel/hotel semuanya udah penuh.
Karena summer holiday jadi susah banget nyari kamar kosong, penuh sampe 1-2 minggu ke depan! Akhirnya gw cuman stay tiga hari dan kepaksa cabut lebih awal.

Akibatnya gw malah nyampe ke Genoa lebih awal dari yang direncanakan.

Selaen itu host pas disana setelah dikontak juga bilang gada masalah dengan kedatangan gw yang lebih awal dari jadwal.
Dia bakal jemput gw nanti kalo udah nyampe train station di Genoa, katanya.

(baik ya?)

Kalo gw liat profil-nya di CS sih gak banyak yang bisa diceritain/ Orangnya keliatan juga suka traveling tapi lebih ke explore alam e.g. gunung, lokasi taman konservasi (dari poto-potonya).
Tampangnya sih lumayan, yang pasti keliatan Italian banget  :-)

Dari awal pun gw bisa bilang kalo cowo ini hatinya baik, dia nawarin kalo butuh info apapun soal Italia boleh nanya ke dia (dan sebenernya semua bisa di-gugel jaman sekarang).

Untuk pertama kalinya selama ngetrip sendirian di luar negri ada orang yang baru  dikenal mau jemput pas gw nyampe di train station.

Ternyata . . . . selain orangnya baek dia lumayan good looking dengan sepasang mata hijau yang bagus banget kaya boneka (hehehe... kesannya koq jadi gak gagah), hidungnya juga  mancung kaya patung Yunani.
Badannya sih gak terlalu tinggi tapi kenceng berotot karena dia suka maen sepak bole. Tinggi badannya sekitar 6 kaki (pas gw nanya ternyata 'cuman' 177 cm, tapi teteup aja berasa tinggi soalnya gw mungil seperti Cleopatra... :-)

Kita sebut aja si cowo charming seperti aktor film Italia klasik ini dengan nama M.
Malem pertama gw nyampe Genoa ini langsung gw 'diculik' dia ke daerah deket pantai sekitar 1 jam dari situ namanya Camogli.

It was indeed a breathtaking place.

Lalu gak jauh dari situ ada kios yang jual es krim alias Gelatteria.
Sejujurnya gw belom makan malem waktu itu dan udah lewat waktu makan malem (skitar jam 11 malem waktu gw nyampe train station Principe di Genoa) jadi gw menolak tawaran untuk beli gelatto.
Agak menyesal juga sih, karena pas nyobain beberapa suap dari M ternyata itu salah satu es krim paling enak yang pernah gw coba!

Berkesan banget buat gw malem itu, karena multiple combined factors;
cuacanya pas lagi bagus (walau malem hari tapi gak terlalu dingin), pemandangannya indah, temen jalannya juga menyenangkan, dan pembicaraannya juga menarik.

Kebanyakan orang-orang yang gw temui sepanjang perjalanan selalu menarik, in a way mereka enak diajak ngobrol (kecuali 1 cowo Australi yang gw kenal selama di Stokholm. Yang gak terlalu nyambung ngobrolnya).

Tapi M ini sangat exceptional buat gw karena selain ngobrolnya nyambung personality-nya berasa 'hangat' (mungkin karena dia juga orang Italia yang secara umum emang lebih hangat daripada orang di utara).

Bahasa Inggris dia gak terlalu lancar dan pronunciation-nya kadang gak jelas plus aksen Italia kental, yang somehow bikin jadi lebih seksi!
Dia juga punya banyak cerita lucu dan walaupun kadang suka keliatan sedikit keeping a distance di awal tapi lama-lama mencair juga (terutama setelah 1-2 gelas wine  :-)
Ow yah, he was indeed preparing a dinner for me the night after.

 

M nanya apakah mau nyoba masakan dia (lagian gw gak pernah nolak kalau ada cowo yang nawarin untuk masak) lalu dia bikin pasta pake anchovy, yang ternyata enakkk banget!

Besokannya gw gantian nyoba bikin nasi goreng tapi gagal. Hiks.
Kata M sih nasi gorengnya enak dan tetep dia abisin (tapi gw yakin dia bilang itu cuman supaya gw gak kecewa).

Selama 4 hari yang menyenangkan gw tinggal di Genoa lebih lama dari yang direncanakan.

Rasanya jadi berat banget mesti cabut dari kota ini :'(

Tapi the trip must go on, even for me it's so natural to say goodbye these days . . . unfortunately it always harder when you get along with someone you just met.

Beberapa bulan setelah kunjungan gw ke Genoa, akhirnya gw memutuskan untuk balik lagi di bulan September- alasan utamanya karena gw homeless- apartement di Kopen udah beres kontraknya sejak awal Agustus, tapi gw masi harus stay di eropa karena ada konfrens di Barcelona pas awal Oktober.

In short words, I stayed here and there in different places (or countries) for 2 months.

Kesannya sih menyenangkan, pindah-pindah ke beberapa kota di Eropa dengan alasan gak punya tempat tinggal tetap.

Ada gak enaknya, itu pasti. Enaknya juga ada.
Yang pasti karena keadaan gak punya tempat tinggal tetap ini akhirnya gw memutuskan untuk balik aja ke Genoa, then again setelah nanya M juga gak keberatan.
Soalnya dia punya kamar kosong (yang emang dipake khusus untuk tamu), dan dia juga jomblo (dia bilang keadaan gak memungkinkan untuk punya pacar karena dia terlalu sibuk sama kerjaan).
Hehe... Sebenernya gak ada hubungan dengan dia punya kamar kosong dan status kejombloan dia.

Yang bikin gw memutuskan untuk nebeng di tempat dia, karena optimis aja  bahwa cowo yang hatinya baik seperti setengah malaikat ini bakal membuka rumahnya untuk cewe homeless dari negara dunia ketiga.

Lagian gw coba untuk gak merepotkan dia selama tinggal disana, nawarin untuk belanja barang-barang keperluan sehari-hari, beberes rumah (dia udah punya housemaid juga yang dateng seminggu sekali), dan masak dinner (lebih seringnya dia order pizza). Hmmm kalo dia order pizza gw suka ikutan minta juga, abis pizza a la Italia itu kulitnya tipis, crunchy, isi atasnya penuh, jauh lebih enak daripada pizza a la US yang tebel. Poko gak rugi deh jauh-jauh ke Italia untuk nyobain pizza....heuheuheu.

Jauh di dalem hati gw, sebenernya pengen banget bawa pulang cowo kaya gini untuk calon menantu buat mamah gw.
Apa daya bagasi SQ jatahnya cuman 20 kgs, jadi gak bisa bawa barang banyak-banyak apalagi bawa cowo.

Selaen penampilan fisiknya yang menarik, M juga humanitarian.
Dia pengen suatu saat bisa tinggal dan kerja volunteer buat anak-anak di Afrika (kalo udah gak butuh duit, katanya).

Owya, karena dia juga traveler dan explorer,  kadang kita suka ngobrol ngalor ngidul soal tempat-tempat yang pengen kita kunjungi suatu saat di masa depan.
Gw juga boleh dapet akses ke foto-foto hasil dia traveling ke beberapa tempat di Amerika Selatan dan Afrika (lalu dibajak, gw bilang siapa tau suatu saat mau buka pameran foto :-)

Kita juga sama-sama pecinta binatang. 

Kalau bisa reinkarnasi dia mau terlahir lagi sebagai elang, sedang gw mau terlahir kembali sebagai lumba-lumba.
Wah sayang sekali kita gak berada dalam medium yang sama.

Air dan Udara.

(Sebenernya gw juga gak keberatan kalau terlahir kembali sebagai elang, karena gw juga seneng terbang pake pesawat tapi gw gak suka makan ular.
Dulu waktu SD kita belajar tentang piramida makanan, elang itu makanannya ular kan? Atau kalau reinkarnasi mungkin gw bisa jadi elang pertama yang diet vegetarian).

Tapi untungnya di dunia sekarang kita masih sama-sama hidup di darat.

Dua hari sebelum cabut dari Genoa, gw berpikir mau ngasi sesuatu buat M.
For he's been really nice to me and he has cured my heart.

Lewat dia, gw jadi bisa belajar lagi bahwa ada juga cowo di dunia ini yang bisa dipercaya dan juga percaya sama gw.
Akhirnya gw beliin dia novel The Alchemist karangan Paulo Coelho (dalam bahasa Italia, tentunya).

Waktu M nganterin gw ke airport, gw berusaha sekuat tenaga supaya gak nangis atau bertampang sedih karena mesti meninggalkan Genoa dan host gw yang udah taking care of me very well. 

Dan gw juga gak mau say goodbye.

Instead, gw bilang kalo kapanpun dia mau maen ke Indonesia pasti akan selalu diterima dengan tangan terbuka. 

Siapatau juga kita bakalan ketemu di salahsatu lokasi travel destination kita di masa depan. 

Life has take me unexpectedly to places I have never imagined before.
I might never know will I ever see him again in the future.
But even for a short moment, he has been a blessing to my life.

Grazie mille.

PS. gw juga sempet bikin video (dan diaplot) di youtube yang intinya tentang cerita kenapa hati gw ketinggalan di genova (cieh). tapi gak gw embedded disini. buat yang mau liat silakan buka link-nya langsung aja ya
disini 

International (Sign) Language

Languages really do catch my interest, for so long.

Indonesian is my mother tongue but I've learned English since I was young (approx. 10-11 years old). So it's been ages English has been my second language, but still I found out that I am not as good as native speakers (of course). I would rate my English fluency something between intermediate level to advance - but then, as long as I survive with my language capability (know how to order food, find direction, even in my case, doing a literature review) I know it's not a problem whether my degree of fluency is advance or not.

Hungarian:: definitely not the easiest one

Just couple of years ago, I also interested in Deutsch (German) and Français (French).
I took a private lesson, and just when I was about to master (well, master my basic lesson- that's what I mean :) I had to leave to Europe for my master program.
But then I found out that my Deutsch was actually really crap in practice, because I couldn't understand what these Germans people were saying. My Français was a bit (slightly a bit) better cause I could understand a bit- at least I got the important point of conversation- but most of the times I kept using English instead of 'parlez Français' (when I was in French speaking area).

It's so lame... I think it's all just the matter of practice and confidence of making mistakes :-)
I'm sure if I settle longer in France or French speaking regions, I'd definitely enhance my Français competency :-)

I also learned a bit of phasa Thai when I was in Thailand (for short time), but every Thai people that I met told me that I had the right accent. So it was really encouraging :-)

Also a bit of Dutch when I was in Netherlands (I was there cumulatively for almost 5 months). I didn't really learn it the way I learned Deutsch or Français. My Dutch language lesson was basically because I hang around with friends and colleagues (and people around me in public spaces :-) who speak Dutch. But I came to conclusion that in Netherlands, almost all the people that I met could speak English very well, so I didn't have to learn Dutch at all :-)

Danish, even though I stayed in Denmark for more than 6 months- is something that I gave up to master. I know how to say basic things e.g. salutations, thanks, sorry, sale/discount, but that's all.
For me it's a bit frustrated to learn, for it pronunciation is tricky - and did not sound as beautiful as French or Italiano. Sorry Danes, but this is the fact from a foreigner.

Danish:: not very encouraging either

Then I also love Itali. Mi amore Italia :-)
And Italiano is a very beautiful language, they also have a lot of meanings in sentences.
For example saying thanks in Italian is 'Grazie' (just like 'Merci' in Français) it has more meaning than just 'thanks' - it's more like 'grace' or 'mercy'. Showing more feelings of compassion and thankful. I just love it.
Not to mention the rhyme when people talked, or even argued about something.
And how they categorize feminine and masculine words/ nouns (similar like French), based on, what?
Anyway, this is the language I'd like to learn more in the future.

Italiano:: the language of love!

Sorry it took so long to come to the point, that International Sign Language is totally almost left out in my to-do-list.
I had this motivation to learn from few years back then, it keeps coming on strong nowadays.
Then I found out that I could actually learned it by myself (thanks to google). They put so many videos about it in webs. So I'm going there now.

ISL :: image taken from shutterstock

We'll see how much I'm getting serious about this in the future.

Ciao ciao!

Italian stories (1) :: Roma

Italia, I've been captivated by this territory for so long.

Last year I managed to visit Bologna and Venezia for the first time, it was beautiful places but at the same time very touristic.
I guess I felt the same when I was visiting Roma, which I could say probably the most touristic places in the whole Europe (or come second after Paris).

In general, I already fell in love with Italy, for several reasons.
Italian people are very warm (in my opinion) compare to north European of course (and I was staying in Denmark for a long time, so my definition of 'warm people' probably has a huge bias).

I remember the first time I visit Italy in 2010, I was arrived in Bologna airport.
At that moment, something went wrong with my cell phone so my SIM card was blocked!
I could not contacted my friend with my cell phone, so I tried to change my money with coins.

Unluckily, not every Italian understands English! Yes, it was really an effort just to exchange paper money for coins from people. I was a bit panic and even asking the information center was not very helpful.
In the end, I managed to get coins to make a call with public phone (with only Italian instruction) because these young Italians couples who understood English and even gave me 50 cents, for free. Sweet.

Anyway, so this is my second visit to Italy, but my first visit to Rome. And it was July, high season for the tourist. I was traveling alone and most of the times I felt I was trapped between these English-speaking tourists from the States, or UK.

Strange, I didn't feel like traveling in Italy at all.
People around me speak with obnoxious American/Bristish accents.
Hmmmm.... So that's the story how I developed resistance towards US/Brit accents (or the people, because then I could hear their pointless conversations accidentally).

Back to the reason why I love Italia, not just the people. But also the foods. I love pasta and pasta sauce and gellato and tiramisu (I love all the Italian desserts besides Tiramisu).

And the weather! It was a bit too hot even for a tropical girl like me, in the mid of July. I wish I could revisit Rome later during autumn or spring to experience more convenient weather.

Rome is on my top wish of travel lists, since I love the story of Roman history when I was young. When I was a kid, I was basically raised by comic books and one of them was Asterix.

I learned that Roman history conquered many places in Europe in the past, and Giulius Cesare as one of the big famous (or infamous) conquerors during that golden period of Roman emporium.

il Colosseo Amphiteatre :: built in ca. 70-80 AD

To actually visit this historical places where Colloseum, tombs, statues, ruins from hundreds, even thousands years ago felt like a dream come true for me!
It was half unreal, and half realisation from a pilgrim like me :)

It was too short to visit for 4 days actually, I actually missed Museo di Vaticano (because I didn't want to wasted time queue for 5-7 hours to get inside the Sistine Chapel- and will spend only couple of seconds only to see the ceiling painted by Michaelangelo Buonarotti.)

Not that I don't like works of art from this Italian maestro, but simply in the name of anti-hegemony I refused to give more money to Vatican.
All my Italian friends have warned me that Vatican has loads of money but still steal from tourists, in the name of religion or historical arts.
Shame.

BUT, I could say that I was happy enough to be around the city and surrounding areas, even though I missed the museum.
It was trully historical places all over the cities.

My host, an Italian man originally from Bari but has worked in Roma for years, told me that recently the government has stopped to dig a place to work on a new metro line.
Just because everytime they dig they found a new archeological sites. Just as awesome as that.

My tips how to get around Roma is,
1. Bring a bottle for water (water could be get freely from the fountains almost everywhere).
2. Be careful of your belongings, especially when taking the public transport (metro). There are many pickpockets, don't look too 'flashy'.
3. Speak a bit of Italians (with the right accent!) it's so annoying when American tourist saying 'Grazie' and pronounce the 'z' wrongly !
4. It's so easily to get lost in this city, even with the map in your hands. Don't be shy to ask people. And if a guy asked you out for a coffee instead of giving the right direction, just lie to him and say you already have Italian boyfriend at home :-)
5. For those who wanna buy souvenirs, find a place a bit further from touristic places. Magnetic fridge should be cost 1 Eur if you find a right place.